Want to Boost Your Happiness?
Try these 10 tips for a more joyful life
1. Get a dog, not a cat.
2. Find a neighborhood bar.
Turns out Norm and Cliff from Cheers discovered a secret of happiness. Regulars at local pubs are not only happier than those who bar hop, they have more friends and better life satisfaction—and they’re less likely to binge drink, an Oxford University study found. The benefits are more about joining a community than guzzling Budweiser, says study author Robin Dunbar. “Friendships are created and maintained mainly by face-to-face interaction, even in the Internet age,” he writes in the study report. Which means that spending time with people who know your name can be more intoxicating than the beer.
“Friendships are created and maintained mainly by face-to-face interaction, even in the internet age.” —Robin Dunbar, evolutionary psychologist
3. Choose time over money.
4. Head to the beach.
5. Stop and smell the roses—and petunias, daisies, daffodils …
6. Eat a big bowl of fruit.
OK, you’d rather hear there’s a link between feeling happy and eating Ring Dings, but a recent study from the University of Warwick shows that eating eight daily portions of fruits and vegetables can significantly increase happiness. How significantly? Researchers compared the rise in life satisfaction to how unemployed people feel when they get a job.
7. Listen to upbeat music.
There’s a link between cheerful music and feeling happy. Researchers at the University of Missouri found that study participants who listened to upbeat tunes reported higher levels of happiness after two weeks. So that means adding Pharrell Williams’ “Happy” to your playlist instead of Johnny Cash’s “Hurt” (though, yes, it’s an amazing performance). If you prefer classical music, researchers in another University of Missouri happiness study instructed subjects to listen to Copland rather than Stravinsky.
8. Dig out your photo albums.
When it comes to happiness, looking at photo albums is more powerful than eating chocolate (and better for your waistline). That was the conclusion of a study conducted by the United Kingdom’s Open University, which found that flipping through photo albums lifted moods by 11 percent among test subjects, compared to just 1 percent for groups that ate, drank or tried other activities. Looking through photo albums also made participants feel more relaxed compared to eating chocolate or drinking wine.
9. Give to others.
Generosity can ignite pleasure centers in the brain—the same areas that light up when we enjoy everything from ice cream sundaes to sex. Studies using functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI) scanners have confirmed this, showing brain activity when people are giving to others or even observing someone giving to charity. Giving back can also be a key to happiness later in life. Retirees are three times more likely to say “helping people in need” provides more happiness than “spending money on themselves,” according to Giving in Retirement: America’s Longevity Bonus, a report from Age Wave and Merrill Lynch. Giving back can even lengthen your lifespan: Research published by the American Psychological Association found that those who volunteer might live longer than those who don’t.
10. Have sex once a week.
“It’s been so long since I had sex,” Joan Rivers once said, “I’ve forgotten who ties up whom.” More sex is good for your health—benefits range from lowering your blood pressure to easing pain—but as a happiness booster, the magic number may be once a week. A study published in Social Psychological and Personality Science, based on four decades of surveys involving more than 30,000 Americans, found that people who made love more than once a week were no happier than those who had sex weekly. The findings were consistent regardless of respondents’ age, gender or relationship status. Even if you’re not generating heat between the sheets, simple human contact can make you feel good. Kissing has been found to ease stress and lower cholesterol, and hugging has similar benefits: It increased oxytocin levels and decreased blood pressure in women who participated in a University of North Carolina study. Hugging might even prevent you from getting sick. And that, yes, should make you happy.